It doesn't matter if a child comes to you or through you. That love is still the same. You are still a mother.
God's love is too great to be confined to any one side of a conflict or to any one religion.
For the most part, that message hasn't changed a lot over the years - love is still love, and heartbreak is still heartbreak.
True love is not a strong, fiery, impetuous passion. It is, on the contrary, an element calm and deep. It looks beyond mere externals, and is attracted by qualities alone. It is wise and discriminating, and its devotion is real and abiding.