Zitat des Tages über Selbstmitleid / Self-Pity:
Self-pity is our worst enemy and if we yield to it, we can never do anything wise in this world.
It is only a step from boredom to disillusionment, which leads naturally to self-pity, which in turn ends in chaos.
There's great sadness and life doesn't work out like you would want, on a lot of levels, but there's no need to feel all alone. This happens to everybody, so there's no self-pity. This is the ride that humans are on, and all of it is essential for our natural part of it.
Self-pity in its early stage is as snug as a feather mattress. Only when it hardens does it become uncomfortable.
If it weren't the problem of politics for me, it would be another. And yet, sometimes it's so difficult. And I feel sorry for myself. And then hate myself for this feeling of self-pity.
In life, you can blame a lot of people and you can wallow in self-pity, or you can pick yourself up and say, 'Listen, I have to be responsible for myself.'
I know very well that to admit to loving Bright Eyes is to admit to having an overgrown brain region devoted to self-pity, sentimentality, regret, and a handful of other not very appealing emotional states.
As I obsess about my ancient problems, I feel more like I'm sinking in quicksand than lighting a torch. I'm creating neither heat nor light, just the icky, perversely pleasurable squish of self-pity between my toes. My only defense is that I'm not the only one down here in the muck - our whole culture is doting on tales of personal tragedy.
I tell people to monitor their self-pity. Self-pity is very unattractive.
Self-pity comes so naturally to all of us. The most solid happiness can be shaken by the compassion of a fool.
I've never understood pity and self-pity as an emotion.
I missed a whole cycle of childhood, but I've never used it as a device for self-pity.
I felt like I couldn't wallow in self-pity forever. I can't beat myself up forever.
Honesty is as rare as a man without self-pity.
Self-pity, a dominant characteristic of sociopaths, is also the characteristic that differentiates heroic storytelling from psychological rumination. When you talk about your experiences to shed light, you may feel wrenching pain, grief, anger, or shame. Your audience may pity you, but not because you want them to.
If you're not careful, you can fall into a destructive cycle of self-pity.