Zitat des Tages von Warren Farrell:
The only men who aren't in fear of women's reactions are usually men who aren't born or who are dead.
One can make a case that says that since 85% of children being brought up in single family homes are being brought up by women that about 85% of elementary school teachers should be males to balance out the feminization that the boys and girls receive.
Throughout my life I have always been amazed that people couldn't listen to other people, that they couldn't hear their best intent, that there seemed to be an enormous need to demonize.
The key to wealth is not what we earn. It is in what is spent on us.
While girls average a healthy five hours a week on video games, boys average 13. The problem? The brain chemistry of video games stimulates feel-good dopamine that builds motivation to win in a fantasy while starving the parts of the brain focused on real-world motivation.
Men don't oppress women any more than women oppress men.
You could make a case that women addicted men to their sexuality and then withdrew their sexuality until we provided them with a source of income.
I define power as 'control over one's life.' A balanced life is far superior to the male definition of power: earning money someone else spends while he dies sooner.
In America and in most of the industrialized world, men are coming to be thought of by feminists in very much the same way that Jews were thought of by early Nazis. The comparison is overwhelmingly scary.
I don't think there's anything that is a greater area of discrimination against women today than the fact that nowhere in the world is there a female role model in team sports that more than half of a general audience would recognize.
Feminists have confused opportunity with outcome.
In fact, the socialization gives us the tools to fill our evolutionary roles. They are our building blocks.
So we've moved from an era when women's biology was women's destiny to today, which is an era in which men's biology is men's destiny.
All women's issues are to some degree men's issues and all men's issues are to some degree women's issues because when either sex wins unilaterally both sexes lose.
We take men's obligation to earn money, and when they do it well, we blame them for having power and being oppressors. And when they don't do it all, women just don't marry men who are reading 'I'm Okay, You're Okay' in the unemployment line.
Men are often a lot less vindictive than women are, because we are rejected constantly every day.
I'm an awfully loyal friend. Once I've started a relationship with someone, it's like they are syrup and I'm a pancake. Their syrup gets into my pancake, so to speak.
When a man is able to connect with his feelings, he is able to care more.
When women hold off from marrying men, we call it independence. When men hold off from marrying women, we call it fear of commitment.
We have been suckered into believing that, because there are more men at the top than women at the top, that this is a result of discrimination against women. That's been the misconception. It's all about trade-offs. You earn more money, you usually sacrifice something at home.
Men have the influence and power in business and politics. It is the mother who can make the child's bedtime earlier, take away desserts or ground the child.
It evolved from my experience in the fifties, growing up during the McCarthy era, and hearing a lot of assumptions that America was wonderful and Communism was terrible.
And we reduce almost all male-female problems by working on both the female and the male. And that usually means having both sexes take responsibility.
Men's competitive team sports focus on the balance between individual achievement and team achievement with the emphasis on team achievement.
I realized that women's liberation is men's liberation, too.
The average full-time working male works more than a full-time working female.
Our main reasons for fearing males having sex with males is that you really had to construct a more powerful social role to keep men in their place than you did to keep women in their place.
Virtually every society that survived did so by socializing its sons to be disposable. Disposable in war; disposable in work. We need warriors and volunteer firefighters, so we label these men heroes.
For example, the equivalent of a woman being treated as a sex object is a man being treated as a success object.
A lot of young men are frustrated and looking for someone to blame.
Men have not stacked the decks against women.
Feminists who say that I switched sides because I am an opportunist should know that exactly the opposite is true. It's cost me a lot of money. I've gone from being well-to-do to being $70,000 in debt. I have done something self-destructive financially. I could only do it because I don't have to support a wife and child.
Nobody has said to men, 'It is OK if you want to be a full-time dad; find a woman who will support you.'
My wife's income allowed me to do what I really loved. I realized that women's liberation is men's liberation, too.
Companies like I.B.M. have offered women scholarships to study engineering for years, and women engineers routinely get higher starting salaries than men.
I've gone from being quite wealthy, when I was defending women, to being quite poor defending men.