Men in high heels? That's a prosthesis. But I sympathise. Women have these giant heels. They get taller and taller. The men need help. But a man in heels is ridiculous.
When you are too specific on a target, it can drain you. Ask me where I will be when I am 60, and I will have no answer to give.
Shoes for men are about elegance or wealth; they are not playing with the inner character.
Everyone wears what they feel great in or comfortable with.